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Elizabeth Grace Martinez's avatar

I also like getting older. I like being more confident in saying no. Still struggle with people pleasing but now I know how to examine the reasons I do it.

I've been spending time with women who are 15-20 years younger than me and they value my advice. I'm proud of myself for being able to give it. They have clear skin, no wrinkles and boundless energy. But I have the confidence that comes from surviving things that they don't yet know they'll be able to survive. I think that's a fair trade.

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Nico Harlakenden's avatar

Wise words and heartwarming sentiments, Elizabeth. I'm so glad you're present to be able to provide that to those younger folks. It really touches me when you say, "I'm proud of myself for being able to give it." ✨

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